Beliefs – These are the things you believe in. The two biggest ones are religion and politics. Both
of these involve worldviews and have a lot to do with how you see the world and will directly
affect other areas of your lives. Having the same beliefs helps you to both be on the same team
and it gives you things to talk about and pursue together. It forms a foundation upon which to
build your life.
Preferences – These are personal likes and dislikes. These can be related to values but typically
these have to do with daily lifestyle choices.
Do you prefer to spend a lot of time alone or with
people? Do you like to go to bed early or late? Do you eat healthy or unhealthy? Do you like to
be active or passive? Do you like to travel or do you prefer to stay home? These are just some of
the preferences that need to be addressed. You can blend different preferences, but it is good to
evaluate how you will resolve differences.