When dating is seen as a hobby, sex follows....but when dating is seen as a door to marriage and not the door to the bed room, I think we shall go far.
When you propose to a lady, give her time to analyze your proposal.
If she doesn't like you, accept it in good faith when she tells you.
READ Dating-A FULL TIME JOB
It is foolish for a lady to jest, mock or gossip a guy who had boldness to propose to you. If you don't like him, don't go about destroying him with your mouth.
Do unto others what you want others to do unto you.
Just say a simple no if you don't like him and move on.
SEE-- TITANIC TRUELOVE