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6. He Gets Irritated When You Start a Mushy Conversation Mushy conversations and cute names are a playful part of a couple's love life. These things slowly taper off as the puppy-love effect wears off, but they still remain deep-rooted in everyday behavior. Your guy's annoyance may be justified if you overdo it by calling him cute names all day long. But an overall aversion

1) Your Boyfriend Suddenly Starts Demanding Space in the Relationship Your boyfriend really shouldn't be asking for more space in your relationship if there have not been any changes in the way either of you behave. His demands to be left alone could be because he doesn't enjoy being with you the same way that he did before. Calmly ask your boyfriend why he wants more space. If he says something specific, deal with it and get it over with. But if he says something vague and has no clear reasons why he suddenly wants you to take a step back, his love for you may be fizzling out. 2) He Starts Comparing You to Other Girls A guy should never say something to a girl that makes her feel less beautiful, less talented, or less of a woman than someone else.  Comparing your behavior, looks, or any other aspect of personality with another woman suggests a deep-rooted resentment driving a sense of frustration. Here are some examples of how a guy's cruel words

( A MUST-WATCH 5MIN VIDEO ) 1 . 'Do I need to ask his parents' permission first ?' If you really want to turn tradition on its head, then why not ask his mother for her approval? After all, with you taking the reins and proposing to him, it seems only right to ask the matriarch of the family what she thinks. 2. 'Do I need to buy him an engagement ring ?' It doesn't have to be a ring. It could be a pair of cufflinks, or a piece of art - anything that lasts a lifetime. A watch is another nice idea as you can have it engraved with your proposal date. It's something he will wear every day - just like an engagement ring. See also: Marry by force!

(1) To Be the Man He is Called to Be — 1 Corinthians 16:13 Father, I pray that my husband will be alert and on guard; standing firm in his faith and conviction in You. I pray that he would be the man You have called him to be, and that he would be courageous and grow in strength. In Jesus’ Name. (2) To Be Obedient to God’s Will & Plan for His Life – 1 John 2:1; 3:22 Father, I pray that my husband conforms to Your will in every purpose, thought and action.  I pray that he will follow Your plan for him and habitually practice what is pleasing to You. In Jesus’ Name.   (3) To Receive Wisdom, Knowledge & Understanding — Ephesians 1:16-19, Colossians 1:19 Father, I ask You to give my husband spiritual wisdom and understanding, so that he may grow in his knowledge of You. I pray that his heart will be flooded with light so that he can understand the wonderful future You have promised him. I pray that he is filled with the full knowledge of Your will in all wisdom and in unde

Prayer points: 1. I thank You God because You alone are the perfect matchmaker 2. Lord, release to me the man/woman you have pre-ordained as my spouse in Jesus’ name. 3. Lord, cause it to happen that the divine match will come forth soon in the name of Jesus. 4. Lord, let my spouse be a person who loves You wholeheartedly in the name of Jesus. 5. Lord, establish our home according to the scriptures in Jesus name (read Ephesians 5:20-28). 6. Father, let all satanic barriers keeping us from meeting be dissolved in Jesus’ name. 7. Lord, send forth your warring angels to battle and release my spouse wherever s/he is held captive in the name of Jesus. 8. Lord, I believe You have created me for a special person; bring it to pass in the name of Jesus. 9. I now call him/her out of obscurity into my life in Jesus’ name. 10. I reject the provision of counterfeit spouse for me by the enemy in the name of Jesus. 11. I cut off the flow of any inherited marital problems into my

Pray all points with the understanding that you are coming through the blood and the name of Jesus. 1. Matthew 6:12 – In the name of Jesus, I ask for forgiveness for the sins of my ancestors, parents, acquaintances, and myself, which gave the enemy and his cohorts the legal rights to work against my marriage. RELATED: 10 HOT PRAYER POINTS FOR YOUR HUSBAND! 2. Galatians 3:13, Psalm 107:2 – I declare that I am not bound by the covenants of ancestors, and that I am redeemed by the blood of Jesus. 3. Revelation 17:1-2 – I take authority in the name of Jesus, and I cancel all satanic covenants, agreements, vows and promises for wealth, health, fame, protection, power, influences, etc. which have brought the curse of being single in my life. 4. Revelation 18:12, 13 – I declare that every merchandizing and exchange of my soul in the area of marriage comes to a halt.  I declare that every influence of the spirit of Jezebel concerning my marriage is completely and permanently ter

(4)  Pray with humility to God when facing weakness and temptation.  Jesus told His disciples on the night of His betrayal, “Watch and pray that you may not enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak” ( Matt 26:41 ;  Mark 14:38 ). Jesus warned His disciples, and yet that night, they all fled when they said that they would not ( Mark 14:26-31 ). Jesus instructed, “Pray that you may not enter into temptation.” ( Luke 22:40 ,  46 ). Was Jesus wrong about prayer?! These are not useless words! Would prayer have helped deliver these disciples? Yes, it would. If prayer against temptation was not useful and powerful, why would Jesus have commanded His disciples to pray? What if they would have prayed three times that

(3)  Set your mind on the Spirit.  Look to better things. “then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God” ( Col 3:1 ). How is this important to overcoming sin? Consider verse 5, “Put to death therefore what is earthly in you: sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry.” Think about how evil thoughts and imaginations feed the

(3)  Set your mind on the Spirit.  Look to better things. “then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God” ( Col 3:1 ). How is this important to overcoming sin? Consider verse 5, “Put to death therefore what is earthly in you: sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry.” Think about how evil thoughts and imaginations feed the lusts of the flesh. One must start disciplining the mind and become aware that God sees everyone and knows every thought.  The Christian must set the mind on the Spirit and become spiritually aware of what is behind the lusts of the flesh. “[T]o put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds,” ( Eph 4:22–23 ; ESV). 

(2)  Escape temptation and bear it.  God is faithful giving a way to escape for everyone to bear temptations ( 1 Cor 10:12–13 ). Bearing the urges is the only way to learn to weaken and endure such strong desires. Christians must escape and bear the temptation. “Flee from sexual immorality” ( 1 Cor 6:18 ). The Christian must escape like

(1)  Make no way to give into lust  ( Rom 13:13–14 ). Christians must set a perimeter in one’s life and in one’s mind. The follower of Christ must not stay around temptations. They must find a way to stay away from private temptations of secret sins. Many Christians simply miss this point. Even when a Christian sets one’s mind on Christ, that mindset must include avoiding all forms of evil and fleeing from temptations.  Solomon warned not go near the street of the adulterous woman at night (Prov 7). Christians must make no way for private and hidden sins.  Paul exhorts in Romans 13:13–14 , “Let us walk properly as in the daytime, not in orgies and drunkenness, not in sexual immorality and sensuality, not in quarreling and jealousy. But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires.” From here, believers grow in Christ and in His virtues for the rest of your life ( 2 Pet 1:4–11 ). This is a war, and Christians must fight the good figh

I realize that sexual temptations are great, no one is exempt from them, and none should boast of their self-righteousness. I'm also aware that in seeking to turn someone from the error of their ways we must do so in gentleness and humility (Gal. 6:1; 2 Tim. 2:25). But if there is to be victory in this area, it must begin with a reverent understanding and a scriptural estimation of the defiling and degrading nature of sexual sin and its terrible dangers. Before people obey God, they must be thoroughly awakened. Only then will they overcome counteracting forces.  Those who practice sexual sin, or any other sin for that matter, and profess Christ, are partaking of the body of the Lord unworthily; and in doing so they are receiving a curse rather than a blessing. "For he who eats and drinks in an unworthy manner eats and drinks judgment to himself, not discerning the Lord's body. For this reason many  are weak and sick among you, and many sleep" (1 Cor. 1

Marriage shd be sweet like fruits... But No  marriage love can truly exist between two partners belonging to different religions, because the truth of the one does not agree with the good of the other; and two unlike and discordant kinds of good and truth cannot

Welcome to Ghanaian campuses where little girls are practicing 'wifely functions'! Just visit the boys' hostels and you would be disappointed to find out that it is now common for a girl to live in with a course mate. It is now common for her lover to give her the popular compliment: 'you look sexy my gal' and she would gladly reply 'thank you honey' with a flirty voice and a romantic smile. Help us Jesus. Come and forgive us Lord....

When dating is seen as a hobby, sex follows ....but when dating is seen as a door to marriage and not the door to the bed room, I think we shall go far. When you propose to a lady, give her time to analyze your proposal. If she doesn't like you, accept it in good faith when she tells you. READ Dating-A FULL TIME JOB It is foolish for a lady to jest, mock or gossip a guy who had boldness to propose to you. If you don't like him, don't go about destroying him with your mouth. Do unto others what you want others to do unto you. Just say a simple no  if you don't like him and move on. SEE-- TITANIC TRUELOVE

Some guys are attracted to what is in between her fiance's thighs , than what is in between her destiny, career and achievements. The longer the dating , the more pleasurable to have sex.  Date when necessary, and marry fast to save godliness May Jesus make you  pure. Amen SEE ALSO SEX LIFE 2

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With Christian dating the one Scripture that comes to mind is  2 Corinthians 6:14-15: “Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness: What harmony is there between Christ and Belial? What does a believer have in common with an unbeliever?” (NIV)  It is clear that Christians need to be equally yoked, but not only in their faith. Being equally yoked has to do with being compatible and liked minded. It really is common sense. – You want to get along well with your partner? You want to fit together and enjoy being together? You want to be able to work together as a team? then , marry someone of your faith, of your belief and of your saviour. SEE ALSO Consequences Of A Bad Marriage

Interests – These are things you spend time doing and investing in. These include extracurricular activities and leisure such as church, politics, art, gardening, sports, travel, hiking, walking, beach and water play, playing games, fishing, reading, or history for example.  You don’t have to like all the same things but you should have some common interests to build a life together. No two people can be compatible in all areas but it is important to have enough commonality that your lives can work together without being highly conflictual or one in which you will be trying to make each other change. If there are any concerns, you should think and talk them through carefully before getting married . If you keep these areas in mind, your relationship will not only please God, but you will be pleased with your partner and your partner with you.

Beliefs – These are the things you believe in. The two biggest ones are religion and politics. Both of these involve worldviews and have a lot to do with how you see the world and will directly affect other areas of your lives. Having the same beliefs helps you to both be on the same team and it gives you things to talk about and pursue together. It forms a foundation upon which to build your life.

It is wise to be equally yoked in these six areas: Life Goals – You want the same things in life. You envision a future that is similar. You can support each other’s education and vocational goals. You agree about having or not having children. You are in agreement about where to live.

If you think your relationship is unhealthy, it’s important to think about your safety now. Consider these points as you move forward:

What Isn’t a Healthy Relationship ? Relationships that are not healthy are based on power and control , not equality and respect. In the early stages of an abusive relationship, you may not think the unhealthy behaviors are a big deal. (To watch a 1min video, click <<<here>>> ) However

Communication is a key part to building a healthy relationship. The first step is making sure you both want and expect the same things -- being on the same page is very important. The following tips can help you create and maintain a healthy relationship:

What greater gift can we give someone than to set them free from the weight of their mistakes? When we unlock others from a past they cannot correct, we free them to become all they can become, and we free our relationships to become all they can becomes as well.

There are several practical things that you can do which will help u avoid lust and sex marriage:

Sexual immorality is not just sexual intercourse outside of marriage.  It includes sexual touching, lustful behaviour & even what we look at. The Bible says, to avoid even a hint of sexual immorality.  But when it comes to other behaviour, you must use your own wisdom as to whether it is sexual or not.   Take hugging for example.  There is a type of hug that is completely non-sexual.  Then there are other hugs that begin to ‘hint of sexual immorality’.  We know the difference, and we are called to avoid even a hint of sexual immorality.

 "Foolish dating" typically refers to engaging in romantic relationships or dating behaviors that are unwise, reckless, or not well thought out. This can encompass a variety of actions, such as: 1. **Ignoring Red Flags**: Overlooking clear signs that a partner may not be suitable or may even be harmful. 2. **Rushing Into Relationships**: Getting too serious too quickly without taking the time to truly know the other person. 3. **Not Being True to Oneself**: Pretending to be someone you’re not in order to please or impress a partner. 4. **Overlooking Important Values**: Ignoring significant differences in values or life goals that could lead to conflicts down the road. 5. **Settling for Less**: Accepting mistreatment or staying in a relationship out of fear of being single, rather than being with someone who truly respects and values you. 6. **Neglecting Personal Boundaries**: Not setting or enforcing personal boundaries, leading to potential emotional or physical harm. 7. **I

Some of the biggest excuse for staying in a bad relationship is : We’re engaged, already committed. And We’ve had sex.

Many youth in our country today have embraced indecent ways of dressing because they think it’s a way to show that they know how to dress or that they know what fashion is. They now see decent dresses as old fashion, sometimes this happens because there is no good advice from either close relatives or parents.

ONE OF THE MOST STUPID AND NONSENSE statement ON EARTH: "Marriage doesn't cure lust, if it did, adultery wouldn't exist. Don't view marriage as a sex release. Self control is still a requirement. Lust doesn't care if you are married or single. You may be Solomon in wisdom or David in praise or Abraham in faith or Joshua in war BUT if you are not Joseph in discipline, you will end up like Samson in destruction" HEAR ME: "I wonder the grain of lies in this statement that has impregnated the biblical theories, and said by most sexually-lusted preachers  for years..... It is even said by bachelors and spinsters, making it terribly nonsensical!!!!! Read: HOW CAN I FIGHT SEXUAL LUST

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